tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post5249601298518667436..comments2024-02-06T01:05:45.598-08:00Comments on Temporary Insanity, Permanent Joy: Help - teetering on the rope hereMrs. Frogsterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06067224159061270063noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-11359586082218476562009-06-10T22:56:36.841-07:002009-06-10T22:56:36.841-07:00I had 4 children in 5 years. At one time I had th...I had 4 children in 5 years. At one time I had three children in diapers. I worked full time with 4 children in daycare for a time. <br /><br />I will tell you this - it gets easier as they get older. <br /><br />You are less exhausted and your time is less constantly in demand. People who disagree with this have frequently forgotten the reality of raising babies. <br /><br />I found cutting back necessary at times, and you can't cut back on the care of the children (too much) The advice of Mrs. Darling seems very sound - raise your prices a bit, you fine, in demand artist!<br /><br />Good Luck with the struggles many mothers face - balancing time, energy and money.<br /><br />And P.S.<br />Praying to God helps.Jeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11366120293655830620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-42024359038312273612009-05-30T08:29:26.052-07:002009-05-30T08:29:26.052-07:00Jeanette,
I want you to just take heart. You will ...Jeanette,<br />I want you to just take heart. You will find yourself in a juggling quandry no matter what you do. As the kids get older it will be school and their activities added in. This is motherhood! <br /><br />Think of your great grandmother. While she spent hours laboring over the washboard and boiling her lye soap she never once worried that she wasnt spending enough time with her kids.<br /><br />On butchering day she spent all day butchering those chickens and plucking their feathers, getting them ready for the ice house.<br /><br />She spent hours cooking huge meals for the threshing crew. Shoot, I can remember making pies one day for a farm crew of only three hands plus a family of seven. I made 6 pumpkin pies and they were all gone in one meal! Several hours of work GONE in ten minutes. But your grandmother would have picked the pumpkin, boiled it out, and made the pies all the while keeping the wood fire burning so the ovens stayed at an even heat.<br /><br />Now what has this got to do with you? Just this: Not once did we on the farm, or your grandmother ever EVER stop to wonder if we were neglecting our kids. <br /><br />Guilt trips were non existent. We have all this guilt now because the psychologists have told us how it should be. We've bought into the thinking that we need to be taking the kids to the park, cutting pb&j sandwiches into heart shapes, playing Hi ho cheerio, and all this stuff we should be dong with our kids...it weighs on us and makes us feel like we are not the parent we should be.<br /><br />Lookk at the proverbs 31 woman!She was a business lady. It says her family was clothed with scarlet but nowhere does it tell us that she sits in the evening reading stories to her children, or she sits in the evening putting puzzles together with her kids. Nope, she is busy, busy, busy.<br /><br />And so are you. Instead of buying scarlet from from the merchants and purchasing fields you are bringing in money by crafting.<br /><br />I can gaurantee you that when you get past the guilt of mommyhood that you will worry less about balance. You need to be confident that what you are doing now will benefit your family in the future by bringing in money to help keep things afloat.<br /><br />Your kids are fine. The love messes. They love just having you there. <br /><br />Mommy guilt is something we will always fight but dont give in to it! Now if you need something for your own sanity I would hire someone to watch the kids for a couple of hours, but in the meantime dont feel guilty.<br /><br />There now see how large an epistle I have written to thee with my own hand? (I love writing sentences like that to someone I know will catch on to the nuance there) lOLMrs. Darlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12911621891840832728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-19054826801359457192009-05-30T01:50:12.177-07:002009-05-30T01:50:12.177-07:00I'm happy that your business is growing. You've go...I'm happy that your business is growing. You've got great products. I would recommend you consider re-evaluating your prices. If you're overwhelmed you could charge more for pieces. You might get less orders but you'll make more on the orders you are making. You could also consider some outside help. Maybe a student to watch the kids a few hours a week. Work-at-home moms have the toughest job because you can't completely focus on one thing at a time.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06983161969233970719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-78800332671696629852009-05-29T15:37:33.761-07:002009-05-29T15:37:33.761-07:00Oh goodness, I feel the same way. If you find the ...Oh goodness, I feel the same way. If you find the answer, please tell me!<br />The past several days I've been feeling like I'm nuturing and raising my computer instead of my kids. Sometimes I just want to turn everything off and forget it all...but for some reason I just want to keep going. I feel like I'll be a failure if I just quit it all. So, don't worry, you're not alone. And it makes me feel SO much better to see that I'm not alone either! I sure do love reading your blog. :)send mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17276242717842471692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-35336811874352819522009-05-29T04:48:20.082-07:002009-05-29T04:48:20.082-07:00I have no words of wisdom, but I do stand beside y...I have no words of wisdom, but I do stand beside you in the "how do I fit it all in?!" frame of mind. *hugs* I will pray that you find guidance. :)Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14393648841010865095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14145611.post-89450545227330232862009-05-29T04:47:30.354-07:002009-05-29T04:47:30.354-07:00AMEN sister! You know that I struggle with this al...AMEN sister! You know that I struggle with this all the time AND I too stay up at all hours of the night trying to fit it in!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15943860371047201400noreply@blogger.com